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How To Do A Good Strip
I am sure everyone of us have thought about or maybe daydreamed about doing a strip, unless you’re someone from a remote and uncharted island on the planet (but you would not have possibly come across this article). But I’m afraid not all of us were born strippers, and not all of us are able to attend stripping lessons, let alone be able to go to strip clubs without compromising one’s privacy. I must admit, going to a strip club incites the malicious minds of some people, and its better not to risk your reputation on it.
Now before we go on and start stripping let us make sure that you’ve made sure of all other things before the show. Stripping is not just something you can do anytime, although the more experienced ones can strip without much ado. But I assume that if you’re reading this material your not part of that group.
So, what are the things that we have to make sure before doing the actual strip show? First of all, you have to know if your partner or the one you’re giving a strip show is open to the idea of you stripping. Now how do you know if your partner is open to this kind of entertainment? It can be seen through your partner’s habits or preferences, the books/magazines your partner reads, the kind of television shows and movies your partner watch. One sure way of knowing is by asking your partner yourself, however, if that option involves risks that you don’t like to take, maybe you can ‘manipulate’ your partner to ask you about what you think about stripping. Making comments suggestive of stripping or erotic dancing might make him ask you eventually.
Another thing you must bear in mind is the music. Any music with a slow tempo is great as it would help you in removing your clothing slowly. Not that quickly removing your clothing wouldn’t make your partner’s jaws drop, but, teasing will definitely help intensify your partner’s desire for you and that is what we are trying to accomplish with stripping. A fast paced music does not have that kind of effect so rock songs and dance songs are not good choices. Love songs and RnB Music are by far the best choice. Just make sure that the music you choose would not be too slow which might make the buildup of your partner’s desire ebb.
The next thing you have to get in mind is the place where you intend to do the strip show. The place can be anywhere in the house; strip shows won’t necessarily take up too much space. The best place probably is the living room, where there is enough space for you to move around and your partner to sit on. Plus, all the things that you need, like chairs, sound system and all other props are there so you don’t have to bother setting up stuff on the other parts of the house. The bedroom is a good place to do it, however, if most of the space is occupied by the bed, your mobility will be compromised resulting to a significant reduction of your freedom to move around your partner and execute some moves.
The lights should be nothing but perfect. Lights are of great importance; the lights not only assure that your partner will see how great your body is but will also help set the mood for the night. You want the night to be as seductive and a erotic as it can be so bright lights will not be of help. Try placing lit candles all over the place. It will not only give create a sensual mood for the place, but your body will also look great under candlelight. Adding some props like flower petals is not necessary, but it would create a great effect on your show.
Arrange the furniture accordingly so that you have a chair for your partner in the center and a clear space in front and around it. Allot enough space for you to move freely and comfortably. The ability to move freely around allows you to execute a variety of moves like an occasional stroke in the back of the head that will surely get his/her juices running. A chair with a backrest and an arm rest might do the trick. You might also want another chair to use as a prop for your strip, just make sure that it will not get in the way of your over all performance.
Another thing worth much consideration is your outfit. Remember, this is a strip, so layers of clothing will be needed for it to work. As for the last outfit you’ll be taking off, your sexiest undergarments will work just fine. Buying a new outfit is not necessary, though having one will be a great idea if it will be something that will arouse your partner’s fantasies. Your outfit should consist of two to three layers and make sure that you do not have too much or too little for the whole number. Choose your outfit well and plan which part of your outfit goes first and make sure that it’s easy to get. From naughty school girl outfits to sexy nurses to cheerleaders there are dozens of variety of outfits that you can choose from.
Now let’s get into the rules. You must not allow him to talk or touch you, unless you said so. Your partner must be seated, with his/her hands on the back or on the sides. You have to make sure that it will be difficult for your partner touch you or you must not let him/her touch you at all, otherwise, it will lose the effect of a ‘tease’. You might keep those hands from touching you by either tying them or cuffing them on the back or on the sides of the chair. Handkerchief, satin or silk cloth will do or if you opt to, there are commercially available restraints specifically built for that activity and you can buy them online. Your partner can turn his/her head but his/her back must stay against the chair at all times. You should also keep yourself from touching your partner. Remember, that your purpose here is to tease and the best way to achieve it is to refrain from touching. You can modify these rules as you see it fit but always remember your goal: to tease.
Once all of the above-mentioned things has been done, its now time to move to the juicy part: the actual tease. Now remember, doing a strip show doesn’t necessarily need that you prepare some big choreography. This is not a Star Search, this is a strip show, and the main attraction here is not the dance but the strip. Make your partner sit down and tell your partner to relax and enjoy the show.
Don’t be so conscious about how you look and how silly you feel. Relax. If there is somebody who should feel something it should be your partner not you. Remember that your partner’s mind will be filled with the thought of you stripping not how nervous you feel. Use this thought to your advantage. Just focus on that thought and all the nervousness will go away.
Once you enter the room you can move slowly or dance towards your partner. Make sure your partner gets a good look at you and what you’re wearing. You can do this by turning showing your behind. Whisper something on your partner’s ear, something that will keep him going for the rest of the show. After that you can walk around your partner slowly then stop in front of your partner and do some a little bending or a little dance. Move really close to your partner, close enough for minimal contact. You can maybe rub your leg or your back to your partner’s shoulders or legs. Make sure that there’s enough contact to make your partner last throughout the show.
Continue to move around and about, occasionally going behind and going in front of your partner. You can squat or perhaps use a chair or a stool if you like and sit on it and seductively part your legs. You can also bend over and put your hands on your crotch and stroke it up and down. Be creative and think of ways by which you can please your partner visually. Make sure that your partner sees all your sides so that your partner will get an idea of what he/she will be getting afterwards. You can sometimes touch your partner in parts where he/she will surely be pleased: on the inner thigh, on the back of his/her neck, on the lines of your partner’s crotch, anywhere as long as it will please your partner.
You can also do a pole dancing show and use a stripper pole for your performance. There are portable stripper poles available online if you like. Doing your partner a pole dancing show will definitely make him/her thrilled. After the dance, you can now move away and start the main show: the strip.
When you start removing pieces of your clothing, don’t just remove it, play with it. Hats and caps may be twirled around and placed on your partner’s head. Eyewear can be bitten and played by your tongue. Neckties, ribbons, and laces can be playfully thrown at your partner or used to drag along and play on your partner’s body. Gloves and stockings should be removed carefully and slowly. You can make him/her help by allowing his teeth to completely remove it. Unfasten your clothes slowly, about an inch or so per 10 seconds, then when you reach halfway, show your partner what lies beneath or let the exposed part touch him/her. You can also rub the exposed areas into the different parts of your partner’s body. You can also rub yourself before removing all your clothing. Try to be as erotic as possible, move very close to you partner and toss your removed garments to him/her. You can also go at your partner’s back where your partner will be unable to see and remove what’s left of your clothing and flash it on his/her face. Let the last piece of your clothing drop right in front of your partner, this will help build anticipation of what’s to come. But in all of these, remember to time yourself accordingly based on the music, move around and dance a little.
Then, once you’re completely naked, walk slowly around your partner and try to rub some parts of your body on your partner. You can also sit on your partner’s lap and do some stroking if you like. Try rubbing your partner with your hands and start loosening his/her clothing, you can also stop in front of your partner and spread your legs then let your foot stroke your partner’s crotch slowly and seductively. Try to move it around your partner’s thighs and on his body. Make sure that your partner sees your body in all its naked glory.
You can end your stripping performance by doing a self induced orgasm in front of your partner will definitely make him/her go wild with lust. You can also do your partner a favor by masturbating their genitals after that long wild show. You can also untie your partner and bring him/her quickly to the bedroom as I’m sure that they are extremely aroused when you’re finished so don’t expect your partner to last long after the great show you had just given.
I guarantee that after you’ve done this, you and your loved one will definitely want to do it again and again. It will be something you and your partner will be talking about foe the coming years to come. Just remember what I have said above and have fun while doing it. Now, get that ass up and start doing some stripping!
The author is a professional dance choreographer working for a club in Miami. With over 7 years of experience as a professional dancer and as a dance choreographer, she has corroborated with several local manufacturers to design and build reliable fixed stripper poles as well as portable stripper poles. |
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